Best way to break up with your girlfriend or boyfriend without hurting her or him feelings

By | November 28, 2016

 

How to break up with your girlfriend or boyfriend without hurting her or him feelings or Best way to break up with your ex without hurting their feelings

My dearest Ram,

              I never knew the pen I am holding right now could be heavier than the heaviness in my heart as I write this.  The pen won’t move it seems but I try.

Having spent significant time with you and explored all your shades of your emotions at various intensities and frequencies in various situations, I am almost sure if you and I can’t carry on in the same vein in the long run.

Yes I promised that you and I would never part ways no matter what but we both should know, at least in hindsight, promises made in the initial honey-moon stage are not to be taken too seriously though it should be taken as an irrefutable testimony to how much we loved each other.

It’s been 2 years and all along, I have had countless adventurous yet wonderful times with you and I don’t think I have ever felt happier/safer with anyone before. Remember our very first time we met? Crazy night it was! Talking through out the night while walking for about 6 hours straight and then watch a movie and then get off to work? We both wished the sun wouldn’t rise! But it rose and so did our connection.

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Best way to breakup with someone you love and stay friends

But unfortunately, I have also had to deal with your other traits and idiosyncrasies, though fascinating at first. May be, it’s my inability to embrace both extremes of yours that has broken my resilience to go forward. Still, you are entitled to know why I have decided to pull the plug.

1. I am too mature for you or you are too impulsive for me – which ever way you look at it.

2. I am not as adventurous as you are and I never know when you will quit your job or when you won’t. Too much of randomness.

3.  I see shades of grey at least I try to but with you it’s either black or white. You are someone with extreme views. Plus you are a bit ultra possessive and I don’t think I can take this mix.

Ram, you are a wonderful person at heart. But perhaps I am quite inept at handling your personality. May be your way of life and mine don’t seem to shake hands.

How can you be a friend with an ex you still love

I don’t want to lose you either. I still want to have you in my life. I want to know how your life shapes up and how you evolve. I know you will hate me saying this but still…

*Can we be friends*? (Two souls who can restore your relation can breakup with ex  without hurting their feelings & stay friend but ex lovers with sour taste in hearts can’t.)

If we can’t be, I can understand.

Yours’ sincerely,
Meera

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